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Firefighter
Marc Hadden had saved dozens of lives with the department in Myrtle Beach,
South Carolina, but on Nov. 14, 2011, he found himself delivering a baby for
the very first time after a woman called 911 complaining of abdominal pain.
“She
struggled from the minute she was put in my hands,” recalls Marc, 48, who just
seconds after her birth, administered emergency oxygen to help get the 6-lb.
2-oz. infant breathing on her own. “It was amazing to hear her cry.”
At
the time, Hadden never imagined that just 48 hours later he would be bringing
the baby girl — whom they named Rebecca Grace — home as her father.
‘Winning The Lottery’
Marc
and his wife, Beth, who already had two young boys (Will, now 15 and Parker,
now 13) had always wanted a third child but because of complications with their
first two pregnancies — they were forced to take the long and expensive route
of adoption.
So
just hours later at the hospital, when the birth mother made it clear she
couldn’t care for her daughter, Marc was the first to raise his hand to take
her in as his own.
Beth
says she remembers getting a phone call from Marc that day where he told her “I
delivered a baby.”
Jokingly
she replied, “Can we keep her?”
Well,
he responded, “I think she might be going up for adoption.”
When
Beth heard that the birth mother was a single mom already struggling to raise a
teenage son, she felt compelled to go visit her the next day at the hospital.
© Jeremy M. Lange Gracie, Parker, Beth, Marc and Will
“My
heart just went out to this woman,” says Beth, 39, who works as an
instructional coach at the local elementary school. “I brought her a little
prayer book and asked I could get anything for her.”
As
the two women talked, a doctor walked in to let the mother know that they were
ready to move forward with the adoption. It was then that she said to Beth, ‘I
can’t give my baby to someone I’ve never met.’
“Suddenly
the opportunity was there for me to say that Marc and I had been praying about
adoption for years,” she recalls. “And she looked over at me and said, ‘I want
you to adopt my baby.’ She had the nurse bring her in and I was able to hold
Gracie for the first time. I called Marc and said, ‘I think we just had a
baby.'”
By
the end of that day, the couple had signed temporary-custody papers, and just
48 hours after her birth, they brought her home.
“She
is what we prayed for,” says Beth. “It felt like winning the lottery.”
Life Today
While
Gracie has been a part of the family ever since the day she was brought home
six years ago, her parents have always made sure she that remembers where she
came from.
“We
told her pretty much from day one,” says Marc. “I’ve taken her to the back of
the ambulance where she was born, so she knows — no doubt about it.”
She
even tells people how “my daddy delivered me in the back of an ambulance [and]
helped me take my first breath.
Always
wearing bows, tutus and practicing gymnastics, Beth says she’s still a “tough
little joker because she has two big brothers who have trained her right.”
Every
day Marc and Beth pinch themselves over how lucky they are to have Gracie in
their lives.
“I’ve
always wanted a daughter, and this is just amazing,” says Marc.
Adds
Beth: “Sometimes the best things in life happen in the blink of an eye — and
you can’t let them pass you by.”
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